Creates a Brighter Tomorrow

One-half of life is luck; the other half is discipline - and that’s the important half, for without discipline you wouldn’t know what to do with luck.

Success requires hard work and self-discipline. With self-discipline, anyone gain self-confidence and achieve success
If you were to ask the most successful people their secret of success, they will tell you that success requires one thing and that is- self discipline.

Discipline is your ultimate tool for personal empowerment.  It means taking control and getting your life in order. You need to commit to doing this, now, and honor that commitment to yourself. Life is too short to put it off any longer.
The journey of success is not easy. There will always be challenges to face, difficulties to tackle and obstacles to overcome. It takes mental strength and consistency to attain what you desire and self-discipline helps you to master just that. Self-discipline is, as popularly called, ‘the bridge’ between goals and accomplishments

Share a Hug.

“You know that moment when you hug somebody, when your heart feels warm and high in your chest and tingly? When you feel just for a second like a baby in a womb... that nothing matters? That's how I want you to feel. That's what a girlfriend should do, I think.” 
It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being
What if it becomes less about how we look and more about how much we care? What if it becomes less about how much money we earn and more about how much we share our good fortune? Imagine a world where who we are in our hearts is the ultimate status symbol "HUG".
BE REAL
Bring it on-
And let truth be my existence.
Value my life-
And tell me like it is.

Bark at me when I'm wrong-
And hug me when I'm right.
Praise me if I succeed-
And tell me if I fail.
Laugh at me if you think I'm funny-
And wink at me if you think I'm cute.
Yell at me if I ever hurt you-
And scold me if I'm ever bad.

Keep things real with me,
Because I want to be alive,
I want my world to be real-
And I want to see your spirit.
I want to hear you breathe-
And I want to know how you feel.

Don’t waste my time with insincerity.
Keep my world real.

Luck is not in your hands!

"Luck is not in your hands
But decision is in your hands"

"Luck can't make your decision, but
Your decision can make luck..."

A force that brings good fortune or adversity

: the things that happen to a person because of chance 
: the accidental way things happen without being planned

: good fortune : good luck


: success in doing or getting something

Mistake Is the First Step of Succsess !!

"Mistake is the first step of Success."
But
The real fact is
 "Correction of Mistake is the first step of success."

So Friends, I would say...If you do the mistake does't matter...but take care that the same mistake should not repeat again and again...

Life is like photography.

In film photography, the negatives are the "films" in which you can develop a picture - meaning to say, create the picture.

In life, we develop - as in, mature and grow - from negatives, meaning our mistakes. We learn from what we did wrong and hopefully not make the same mistakes twice.

It means that we all have negatives, or mistakes, in our life, but we develop into beautiful pictures. We learn from our mistakes and better ourselves from our past experiences. It's another way of saying "Learn from your mistakes."

Life is like photography. You develop from the negatives.
I try to go by that quote and apply it to everything that happens. But sometimes, I get restless. It’s funny we can learn to master our emotions in one entity, but not the other. I know I have grown a lot and have learned to love people the way they deserved to be loved. But some people obviously didn’t deserve that love, and it took years for me to figure it out. So I’ve been eliminating people left and right. I used to be the type that would just go all out and say regretful things during arguments. Not anymore. I used to be the type to honk my horn for 6 minutes because someone cut me off. Not anymore. I used to acknowledge negative people online and argue with them all day long. Not anymore. Now…I find myself not even getting riled up anymore. Now…I find myself laughing at the negativity more than engaging into it and allowing it to “fuck up my chi”. Now…I ignore ignorance. Now…I don’t waste time arguing with someone who will never “get it”. Now…I state my claim, express my feelings & move it right along.

It’s funny how nothing forces me to move faster than pain. Restlessness is pain. Someone manipulating you continuously is pain. Disappointment is pain. Betrayal is pain. Making fake efforts is pain. Being lied to is pain. Broken promises is pain. Giving up is pain. When we’re in pain, it’s our duty to do something to make ourselves feel better. And if the old remedy doesn’t work, we gotta try something new, and get rid of the stale medicine. It’s a must. That old school saying “out of sight, out of mind” trick doesn’t help much. All you’re really doing is crumpling up those feelings and hiding it in your bottom drawer. Not exactly “throwing it away”. So one day, unexpected, you fill find that same piece of paper.

Whenever we have a negative encounter, we wonder, “How could they do this to me?” The reason is because you let them. Basic human nature makes us see people and situations the way we want them to be, not the way they are. Then if your feelings are involved, they may crowd out your personal judgment. We allow others to take advantage, manipulate, and in some cases, abuse us, because we don’t want to “believe” what our senses are telling us is true. Don’t stay in denial. If legitimate facts are laid in front of you, don’t be blind to the obvious. You will get hurt in return. We are living products of our past. I think the reason why we allow these things to keep on happening is because whether it was negative or positive, we don’t have that natural feeling of beauty anymore. The environment of our childhood, teen years and young adult lives sets a path for our future. Our past is a part of our today. We carry it in our hearts and take heed to the next step considering what we been through. We do what was done to us because during our years of growing up we modeled what we saw, heard and experienced. With a great deal of denial, we repeat the physical, emotional and mental patterns set by our families, relationships and friends. Or, we overcompensate for what was missing during or years of growing up. It’s hard to convince one another to just “get over it” when you know that you haven’t gotten over a few things yourself. Point is, just be glad that you still have life. Feel beautiful for once. Or how about forever? Times when I feel like just throwing my hands up in the air and say “I give up. I can’t go any further”… I take a look at all the things I do have, embrace those blessings and smoothly get over it. I relive the good memories of my past, and create lessons to learn from the mistakes I’ve made. Explore my feelings, unpack the guilt and free myself from the baggage I picked up moments before. Yes, you’re gonna feel bitter. Yes, you’re gonna feel unloved. Yes, you’re gonna feel like shit. But once you take a glance at your accomplishments, creations & the strength within…you will start to feel beautiful again. Don’t waste those limited moments of your life harping on the hideous aspects you’ve made it through. You’re here right now. Get a mirror, smile and commence being what you are.

Too many times we cut ourselves down to fit into a situation. Fixing ourselves to stay where we are is the very source of our pain. I refuse to allow myself to live with a constant, reoccurring ache because technically, it means I’m not getting the message. Eventually, you will reach a point where you won’t tolerate it anymore. That’s when it’s going to be the easiest to simply walk away and never look back. The only way you will successfully end it all is to stand up for yourself, and stand up for what you believe in. Make sure you don’t become an emotional pushover. More than likely, your pain is caused by you compromising yourself, to suit others or a particular situation. Catering to someone’s flaws, pride or insensitivity, instead of focusing on yourself and figuring out why you’re putting up with it in the first place. Dig deep within. You know why. You’re just afraid to admit it. Or you’re afraid to let go. Or just flat out being afraid to speak your mind to that person because they blow everything out of proportion just to fault you, when all you’re doing is trying to help.

Things Men do that Upset Women..

पुरुष ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ¤ भगवान की ऐसी रचना है जो बचपन से ही त्याग और समझौता करना सीखता है । ¤ वह अपने चॉकलेटस का त्याग करता है बहन के लिये । ¤ वह अपने सपनो का त्याग कर माता-पिता की खुशी के लिये उनके अनुसार कैरियर चुनता है। ¤ वह अपनी पूरी पॉकेट मनी गर्ल फ़्रेंड के लिये गिफ़्ट खरीदने में लगाता है । ¤ वह अपनी पूरी जवानी बीवी-बच्चों के लिये कमाने में लगाता है । ¤ वह अपना भविष्य बनाने के लिये लोन लेता है और बाकी की ज़िंदगी उस लोन को चुकाने में लगाता है । ¤ इन सबके बावजुद वह पूरी ज़िंदगी पत्नी, माँ और बॉस से डांट सुनने में लगाता है । ¤ पूरी ज़िंदगी पत्नी, माँ, बॉस और सास उस पर कंट्रोल करने की कोशिश करते हैं । ¤ उसकी पूरी ज़िंदगी दुसरो के लिये ही बीतती है । और बेचारा पुरुष ~~~~~~~~~~~~:- ¤ बीवी पर हाथ उठाये तो "बेशर्म" । ¤ बीवी से मार खाये तो "बुजदिल" । ¤ बीवी को किसी और के साथ देख कर कुछ कहे तो "शक्की" । ¤ चुप रहे तो "डरपोक" । ¤ घर से बाहर रहे तो "आवारा" । ¤ घर में रहे तो "नाकारा" । ¤ बच्चों को डांटे तो "ज़ालिम" । ¤ ना डांटे तो "लापरवाह" । ¤ बीवी को नौकरी करने से रोके तो"शक्की" । ¤ बीवी को नौकरी करने दे तो बिवी की "कमाई खाने वाला" । ¤ माँ की माने तो"चम्मचा" । ¤ बीवी की माने तो "जोरु का गुलाम"। पूरी ज़िंदगी समझौता, त्याग और संघर्ष में बिताने के बावजुद वह अपने लिये कुछ नहीं चाहता । ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ इसलिये पुरुष की हमेशा इज़्ज़त करें । पुरुष, बेटा, भाई, बॉय फ़्रैंड, पति, दामाद, पिता हो सकता है, जिसका जीवन हमेशा मुश्किलों से भरा हुआ है।

Real Happiness

What I've seen is that people who "fill up on happiness" are more likely to naturally take actions that move them in the direction of their goals. They also tend to burn more calories, and attract happy and successful people into their lives.

What do I mean by "fill up on happiness"? I mean choose to find happiness -- not negativity, gossip, mind-numbing TV shows, or empty calories -- in the world around you. The following tips, techniques, and happiness quotes should get you started.

Take Action: Take Heart
"Happiness resides not in possessions and not in gold, the feeling of happiness dwells in the soul."

Focus on the chase, the process, the journey -- not the end result! At the end of the day, happiness is not about the big house, the money, or the material goods. The thrill is in the satisfaction of pushing our envelope and working hard. Happiness lives in the meaning and purpose we find in our lives. Melt into the process. Enjoy the ride. Happiness guaranteed!

Celebrate Daily
"There are two ways to live: you can live as if nothing is a miracle; you can live as if everything is a miracle."

Celebrate a creative idea, your brilliance, your authentic style, your family, and/or your clean closets! Celebrate anything and everything that brightens your heart. If you find one thing to celebrate every day, your mind will soon automatically search for things to celebrate. Imagine that...your mind on automatic pilot, searching for happy things to celebrate.

Open Your Heart to Forgiveness
"Forgiveness is a funny thing. It warms the heart and cools the sting."

One needs to expend an awful lot of energy to hold onto anger and resentment. And at the end of the day, who is it hurting? Certainly not the people to whom you are directing your bitterness and hostility. Those negative feelings are swirling through your own psyche and body. So let them go and enjoy a path toward feeling lighter, freer, and happier. In the end, you could consider forgiveness the best kind of selfish act, as it benefits you as much as anyone else.

Give Yourself Credit
"The truest greatness lies in being kind, the truest wisdom in a happy mind."

Rather than focusing on what you haven't achieved (and believe me, we all could create quite the list), why not focus on what you have accomplished and give yourself credit where credit is due? No holds barred. No thoughts that negate your triumphs or happy moments.