Am I Adorable!!

Am I Adorable!!

who is a Male)

कौन है पुरुष (who is a Male) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 
¤ भगवान की ऐसी रचना है जो बचपन से ही त्याग और समझौता करना सीखता है । 
¤ वह अपने चॉकलेटस का त्याग करता है बहन के लिये । 
¤ वह अपने सपनो का त्याग कर माता-पिता की खुशी के लिये उनके अनुसार कैरियर चुनता है। 
¤ वह अपनी पूरी पॉकेट मनी गर्ल फ़्रेंड के लिये गिफ़्ट खरीदने में लगाता है। 
¤ वह अपनी पूरी जवानी बीवी-बच्चों के लिये कमाने में लगाता है । 
¤ वह अपना भविष्य बनाने के लिये लोन लेता है और बाकी की ज़िंदगी उस लोन को चुकाने में लगाता है । 
¤ इन सबके बावजुद वह पूरी ज़िंदगी पत्नी, माँ और बॉस से डांट सुनने में लगाता है । 
¤ पूरी ज़िंदगी पत्नी, माँ, बॉस और सास उस पर कंट्रोल करने की कोशिश करते हैं । 
¤ उसकी पूरी ज़िंदगी दुसरो के लिये ही बीतती है । और बेचारा पुरुष ~~~~~~~~~~~~:- 
¤ बीवी पर हाथ उठाये तो "बेशर्म" । 
¤ बीवी से मार खाये तो "बुजदिल" । 
¤ बीवी को किसी और के साथ देख कर कुछ कहे तो "शक्की" । 
¤ चुप रहे तो "डरपोक" । 
¤ घर से बाहर रहे तो "आवारा" । 
¤ घर में रहे तो "नाकारा" ।
¤ बच्चों को डांटे तो "ज़ालिम" । 
¤ ना डांटे तो "लापरवाह" । 
¤ बीवी को नौकरी करने से रोके तो"शक्की" । 
¤ बीवी को नौकरी करने दे तो बिवी की "कमाई खाने वाला" । 
¤ माँ की माने तो"चम्मचा" । 
¤ बीवी की माने तो "जोरु का गुलाम"। पूरी ज़िंदगी समझौता, त्याग और संघर्ष में बिताने के बावजुद वह अपने लिये कुछ नहीं चाहता । ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 
इसलिये पुरुष की हमेशा इज़्ज़त करें । पुरुष, बेटा, भाई, बॉय फ़्रैंड, पति, दामाद, पिता हो सकता है, जिसका जीवन हमेशा मुश्किलों से भरा हुआ है।

You know you deserve nothing but the best!

 

No matter how bad things got between us, I still had it bad for you. I still miss you & wish nothing but the best for you.
You Can't be good enough for everybody, but you will always be the BEST for the one who deserves you.
Don't let what happened to you minutes ago, days ago, or years ago to hold you back from being the best you that you can possibly in each minute that you have breath.

Give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. Live in the faith that the whole world is on your side as long as you are true to the best that is in you.

You Deserve Nothing But The Best

Are you at the point in life when you feel as though you're settling for anything? In a real sense, when you do all you can do and nothing seems to be working in your favor, you begin settling for just any old 'thing.' Unfortunately, there are too many people walking around settling for anything because in their mind, anything is better than nothing. Whenever you reach a point in life and begin to outgrow someone or something, you need to ask yourself the question, am I settling for less than what I deserve? Let me warn you, it's a tough question to answer because with the answer, you'll have to make some tough decisions. Do I stay or do I leave? Do I continue to remain in something that's beneath my potential or do I maintain my composure?

In this life, I've discovered the worst thing you can do to yourself is to treat yourself as second-class. Anytime you neglect to place a value on you, people will access a value on you that's beneath who you are. I want you to get into your spirit that you deserve nothing but the best. When you refuse to settle for settling, you're putting people on notice that you deserve only the best. If you don't put this concept in your mind, don't assume that everyone will treat you how you want to be treated. Remember, we live in a chaotic world and it's up to you to decide for yourself that you want better.

In this spiritual journey, you need to know whatever God has provided and promised you is nothing but the best for you. In other words, God makes sure His children are well taken care of. Don't compare yourself with others, because God has something special for you. I don't care what anyone tells you, you're not a mistake. You have a purpose and mission to accomplish in this life. When you're on assignment from God, He expects you to be the best. If God expects the best out of you, you need to expect the best out of yourself. This isn't the time to make excuses because excuses won't get you anywhere. As a matter of fact, excuses will keep you down, when God is trying to lift you up.

While teaching His disciples, Jesus deposited these words, "Just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise." Please don't miss this - if you want the best, you must put out the best. Your attitude about your job, your partner, your family, and anything else will determine your altitude. Don't complain about wanting more, if you're not giving the best of yourself. That's my word for you. You deserve nothing but the best, but in return, you must be the best in whatever you do.

To be the best, you have to do your best. Remember you ain't the only one that want the triumph, everybody want to be the champion, but only those who believe in themselves will keep up 'til they achieve it.

For every win there's a pride that builds up and makes you feel good about yourself, but for every loss there's a chance to prove to yourself to be the best

In our life we ​​will have some fun.

In our life we ​​will have some fun. 

I do not unusual 
I was not very happy when I do not know anything. 
Time I was not so troubled that I fell ill. 
Live to enjoy the present.

My love is like an ocean It goes down sooo deep

 

My love is like an ocean
It goes down sooo deep

My love is like a rose
Whose beauty you want to keep

My love is like a river
That will never end

My love is like a dove
With a beautiful message to send

My love is like a song
That goes on and on forever

My love is like a prisoner
It's to you that I Surrender

Just 10 minutes before bed OK?

Some questions for you to ponder....

Are you 'self aware'?
Do you acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses?
Do you know when people are showing you the mirror of your soul?
Can you distinguish between what is 'your stuff' and what is not?
Do you have objectivity about yourself?
Do you love your mind?
Do you have a sense of your own uniqueness?
Do you learn easily?
Can you concentrate?
Are you open to new ideas?
Are you an independent thinker?
Do you allow the laughter to bubble to the surface?
Do you really know how to be lighthearted and fun loving?
Do you often fell tight or restricted in the stomach area?
Are you nervous and fluttery...butterflies in the tummy sort of feeling?

Fill vibrant colors into your life

This is one of the hardest 'colors' to fully step in to.....self esteem with out excessive ego...freedom from worries and fears...standing happily in who we are and the letting go of confusion... come on then...who's game to let their yellow shine?
Colors are all around us. Buildings are painted with colors. Clothes are made in different colors. The sky changes its color depending on the weather. We see colors everyday and everywhere. Colors have become part of our life.

Colors are an interesting element. Colorful things always manage to capture one’s attention. I love browsing through colorful pictures taken by fellow demographers. Those colorful pictures never fail to attract me. I have taken some pictures with color negative films and color slide films too.

Blue is often associated with sadness in the English language. But for me, I relate blue with calmness and peacefulness. I like to look at the sky and the sea. So, most of my blue photos are about them.
Green is sometimes related to envy or jealousy. I prefer to relate green with nature,and its fresh, new beginnings. Leaves that grow out right after winter are fresh and represent new beginnings. Greenery in nature always make people feel refreshed.
Some people see red as a representation of danger and anger. Some people relate red to passion. For the Chinese, red is a color of good fortune and happiness.
Yellow is a bright color. For me, yellow represents joyfulness and cheerfulness. Most of the time, smiley faces that make people smile are in yellow color, aren’t they?

Pain is a pesky part of being human

Pain is a pesky part of being human ,
I've learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here.

Pain is a sudden hurt that can't be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing .

Pain feels like a fast stab wound to the heart. But then healing feels like the wind against your face when you are spreading your wings and flying through the air!

We may not have wings growing out of our backs, but healing is the closest thing that will give us that wind against our faces .

Those loving whispers, a heartfelt kiss,

Perfect Moments

By Stormy Angel and Rusty Rimes

(She Say's)

Those loving whispers,
a heartfelt kiss,
the beautiful feelings,
of heavenly bliss.

Lingering stardust,
morning comes anew,
eyes met eyes,
reveling what’s true.

Light gentle touches,
hearts beat as one,
fires ignite the soul,
as moon meets sun.

Our perfect mornings,
content as can be,
entwined together,
you and me.

(He Say's)

Entwined together,
forever more,
you and I,
by the ocean's great shore.

(She Say's)

Where hand in hand,
our love truly bloom'd,
my heart in yours,
forever consumed.

(He Say's)

Let no sun set,
till the end of time,
upon this love
of yours, and mine <3

3 nice inspirational and motivational thoughts for the day..

 3 nice inspirational and motivational thoughts for the day..

1. Once, all villagers decided to pray for rain, on the day of prayer all people gathered & only one boy came with an umbrella THATS FAITH

2. Example of the feeling of a one year old baby. When you throw him in the air, he laughs because he knows you will catch him THATS TRUST

3. Every night we go to bed, without any of assurance of being alive the next morning but still we set the alarms in our watch to wake up. THATS HOPE

I Love My Sister..

Be aware ~ Have balanced attachment ~ And keep expectations and desire in control ~ For “too much” leads to pain if they do not

happen….
Honesty is the best and the most expensive gift you can give to someone.
It brings trust. It makes you trustworthy, which is priceless.
Remember, trust cannot be purchased, learned or acquired.
It has to be earned.
Trust based on Honesty is the foundation of strong and bonding relationships.
Lead a Honest & Happy Life.
Because If you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything
If You Want To Be TRUSTED, Be HONEST.
If You Want To Be HONEST , Be TRUE.
If You Want To Be TRUE , BE YOURSELF…..

The best things in Life are free.

 Hugs
Hug the shore; let others try the deep.
If you hug to yourself any resentment against anybody else, you destroy the bridge by which God would come to you.
 there is more power in a good strong hug than in a thousand meaningful words.

smiles
A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside.
The real man smiles in trouble, gathers strength from distress, and grows brave by reflection.
Remember even though the outside world might be raining, if you keep on smiling the sun will soon show its face and smile back at you.

friends
A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.
When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.”

 family
It’s important to love your family, whether it’s your mom, dad, grandparents or siblings.
what about the love we have for our family members? It may be a different kind of love, but it’s just as strong and just as important.
Family isn’t always blood. It’s the people in your life who want you in theirs. The ones you accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile, and who love you you no matter what.

Love
Life without Love is like a harp without strings
People will always give you advice, it is you who should decide either to try them or live with them.
You just need a loving heart and inside your loving heart you are never poor.
You can't make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

sleep
Early to bed, early to rise, keeps a man healthy, wealthy and wise.
I love to sleep. Do you? Isn’t it great? It really is the best of both worlds. You get to be alive and unconscious.
Sleeping helps you forget the problems for a while.
Good days end up with good sleep and good dreams.

Good memories
Life is only as good as the memories we make…only they’re gone faster than the smell after it rains.
Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.
The real moment has disappeared but you will always have the memories to remind you.
You will never know the true value of a moment until it becomes a memory. Make the most of the moment cos you never know what you have until it’s gone.

Laughter
Laughter heals all wounds, and that's one thing that everybody shares. No matter what you're going through, it makes you forget about your problems. I think the world should keep laughing.
Laughter and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh, since there is less cleaning up to do afterward.
The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.

If You are Depressed.

 Difficulties only people Stunning
That are part of the same ... !!
Because they own the best
The power to intelligently
Are .. !!

How is your' feeling today?
A few questions...
Do you love being a part of a larger community?
Do you get involved socially?
Do you feel like you belong?
Are you able to work co-cooperatively in a team?
Are you socially intelligent?
Do you lend a hand when needed?
Can you respect other peoples choices?
Do you believe there is enough for everyone?
Do you use your creativity often?
Do you allow your creativity to flow?
Are you generous?
Can people rely on you?
Can you show your affection easily?
Do you treat everyone as a star?
Is your staff/ family happy?

and most important of all...

Are YOU happy?

Life is not Measured by the Number of Breaths

The paradox of our time in history is that
We have taller buildings but shorter tempers,
Wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints.
We spend more, but have less,
We buy more, but enjoy less.
We have bigger houses and smaller families,
We have more conveniences, but less time.
We have more degrees but less sense,
more knowledge, but less judgment,
more experts, yet more problems,
more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly,
laugh too little,
drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired,
read too little,
watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life.
We’ve added years to life not life to years.
We’ve been all the way to the moon and back,
but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.
We conquered outer space but not inner space.
We’ve done larger things, but not better things.

We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.
We’ve conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.
We write more, but learn less.
We plan more, but accomplish less.
We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait.
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of
fast foods and slow digestion,
big men and small character,
steep profits and shallow relationships.
These are the days of
two incomes but more divorce,
fancier houses, but broken homes.
These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.

It is a time when there is much in the showroom window
and nothing in the stockroom.

A time when technology can bring this letter to you,
and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just
hit delete…

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones,
because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe,
because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn’t cost a cent.

Remember, to say, ‘I love you’ to your partner and your loved ones,
but most of all mean it !!
A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment
for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak!
And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
 “Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take but by the moments that take your breath away.”

Life is like a book

Life is like a book, with chapters for each event in your life and a limited number of pages on which to spend your time. But I prefer to think that is a book is like life, particularly a good one, which is worth staying up all night to finish.

A book, you'll never know what chapter two is all about because all you keep doing is re-reading chapter one.
Some chapters are SAD, some HAPPY and some are EXCITING. But, if you never turn the page, you will never know what the next chapter holds.
Each day is a new page. May your book be a bestseller with adventures to tell, lessons to learn and tales of good deeds to remember.

Life is too DEEP

 Life is too DEEP 4 Words:
So don’t try to describe it,
just LIVE it.
Nothing in life is to be answered.
It is only *TO BE* ~UNDERSTOOD~
 
We  can  always  lose ‘something’ for ‘someone’ but we  should  not  lose  ‘someone’ for ‘something’ because  life can return ‘something’ but not‘someone’

 Life is more enjoyable when you focus your attention on helping others than reflecting on your own problems.

The Three C's of successful relationship

 

Communication 
 that includes verbal and non-verbal communication. It's the single most important aspect that can make or break a relationship. It includes caring enough to listen to underlying, unspoken messages being interested enough in each others daily activities , being clear when conveying your innermost needs. Good communication also means knowing how to prevent disagreement from escalating into argument and if they do , knowing how to forgive and move on afterward.

At nonverbal levels, communication means a look, a hug, a touch of hand, for no reason. You know that song "you say it best when you say nothing at all ? It does NOT mean if you sulk i should be able to read your mind.

Compromise
whatever you call it give & take, split the difference, meet halfway.. It stops you going into battle for the wrong reason such as the color of the curtains.
Compromise is what i call diplomatic love- which allows us negotiate our performance and needs, just like bargaining at a market, leading to a win.


Commitment
A filling is very different from a real relationship, but it's sad how many people confuse the two and expect the wrong thing from the wrong people. The wait and see stage needs to happen before you commit, otherwise you are asking for cruising disappointment.
By the time you commit, you need to be absolutely sure that this person is truly compatible and the differences between you are only minor.

If you keep those 3 essential Cs in mind and develop the required skills, you are almost guaranteed to have a successful relationship.

Be idiots and get married

धर्म-पिता - मतलब असली पिता नहीं.

धर्म-माता - मतलब असली माता नहीं.

धर्म-पुत्र - मतलब असली पुत्र नहीं.

धर्म-भाई - मतलब असली भाई नहीं.

धर्म-बहन - मतलब असली बहन नहीं.

लेकिन .... ये जबर्दस्त गलती कैसे हुई.?

धर्म-पत्नी - मतलब असली पत्नी. ��

पता करो शास्त्रों में कहां गलती हुई ?

Stay Positive

   As an entrepreneur, conquering challenge and failure is essential to the success of your business. You can learn to cultivate that resilience by training your brain to stay positive when times are tough.
Whether you're experiencing the loss of a loved one, unemployment, illness, or other personal troubles that are weighing you down, it's good for your happiness and health to find ways to stay positive.
Trying to be optimistic doesn't mean ignoring the uglier sides of life. It just means focusing on the positive as much as possible-and it gets easier with practice.
"People tend to have a cognitive bias toward their failures, and toward negativity," says Matthew Della Porta, a positive psychologist and organizational consultant. Our brains are more likely to seek out negative information and store it more quickly to memory.

Of course, that bias is not always bad. Acknowledging problems and facing failures can lead us to better solutions. But too often, we go overboard, and beat ourselves up for our failures or let ourselves dwell in the negative.
By consciously increasing our focus on the positive, we start to even the balance. We find a happy medium where we can address failures and challenges without letting them get us down, leaving us more motivated, productive, and likely to succeed.

 Try these three tips to help you train your brain to stay positive
1. Express gratitude.

Negative events loom large unless you consciously balance them out. "When you're faced with challenges, it's important to take stock of what's going well," Della Porta says. Thinking about the good in your life can help balance that bias, giving your brain the extra time it needs to register and remember a positive event.

To help your brain store positive events, reflect on what you're grateful for and why at least once a week. Write down your blessings, such as the opportunity to pursue a career you love or a family that supports you. If you prefer a daily habit, then keep a nightly log of good things that happened that day. "Just keep it very short,"

2. Repeat positive affirmations.

As any politician or advertiser knows, the more often you hear a message, the more likely you are to believe it. The same goes for messages about who you are and what you are capable of doing. By repeating positive affirmations with conviction several times each morning, you are training your brain to believe them. "Over time, you'll start to internalize them," Della Porta says. Repeat your affirmations silently if you feel self-conscious.

Choose two to three affirmations that represent your values and goals, such as 'I can handle whatever comes my way,' 'There is plenty of time,' or 'I'm getting better every day.' The repetition will influence the way you interpret negative events, making you more resilient. "Especially if you're predisposed to negative thinking, this can be extremely effective,"
3. Challenge negative thoughts.

Each time a negative thought arises, we choose how to respond. If left to our own devices, we tend to dwell. Our brains home in on negative events so they seem much bigger and more significant than they are. To combat that, start by imagining the thought as separate from yourself, as something you can observe and deconstruct. "Get in the habit of distancing yourself instead of dwelling,"

Next, challenge negative thoughts that are unfairly self-deprecating. For example, if your start up doesn't get the traction you hoped, you might think, "I'm a failure." That's untrue and unproductive. Instead, practice interpreting the same event differently. You might say, I worked really hard but I didn't account for a quirk of the market, so I'm disappointed, but now I'm going to try again with new information. That interpretation is gentler, truer, and more proactive. "At first, [this strategy will] be hard and you'll think it doesn't work," "But over time, it'll become automatic and negative thoughts will be less likely to come up. No one does this naturally; you have to learn and practice."                                                                                                                                                                     

 

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 Life's most persistent and urgent question is, 'What are you doing for others?'
Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.
Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.
The most important thing is to enjoy your life - to be happy - it's all that matters.
The truth is you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed.
Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else.”
Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful
In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure
Life is short, live it. Love is rare, grab it. Anger is bad, dump it. Fear is awful, face it. Memories are sweet, cherish it
Three things you cannot recover in life: the WORD after it’s said, the MOMENT after it’s missed and the TIME after it’s gone. Be Careful!”