Every New Day Is the Best Day of Your Life !

Welcome every morning with a smile. Look on the new day as another special gift from your Creator, another golden opportunity to complete what you were unable to finish yesterday. Be a self-starter. Let your first hour set the theme of success and positive action that is certain to echo through your entire day. Today will never happen again. Don't waste it with a false start or no start at all. You were not born to fail.
This is the beginning of a new day. You have been given this day to use as you will. You can waste it or use it for good. What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it. When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever; in its place is something that you have left behind... let it be something good.

Importance of Self confidence !

“Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.” - See more at: http://liveboldandbloom.com/01/self-confidence/25-self-confidence-quotes#sthash.WJbtX8Wg.dpuf

It is only necessary to have courage, for strength without self-confidence is useless.
“Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.” 

Self confidence is the most attractive quality a person can have. how can anyone see how awesome you are if you can’t see it yourself ?

Your level of self-confidence can show in many ways: your behavior, your body language, how you speak, what you say, and so on. Look at the following comparisons of common confident behavior with behavior associated with low self-confidence. Which thoughts or actions do you recognize in yourself and people around you?

Improving your self-image, like improving any skill, takes time and practice. Developing good self-esteem involves encouraging a positive (but realistic) attitude toward yourself and the world around you and appreciating your worth, while at the same time behaving responsibly towards others. Self-esteem isn't self-absorption; it's self-respect.
 

Self-confidence is an attitude that is characterized by a positive belief that you can take control of your life and of your plans. It is a belief in your abilities. Confidence is the state of being certain that a chosen course of action is the most effective given the circumstances.

People who are self-confident are those who acknowledge their capacity to do something and then proceed to do these things. They do not rely on the approval of other people in order to affirm their existence. It is enough that they know they have the capacity and the potential to do something, and the guts to do it no matter what others may say.

People who are self-confident take advantage of opportunities that come their way. Self-confidence can be a self-fulfilling prophecy, as those without it may fail or not try because they lack it and those with it may succeed because they have it.

To be successful in the business of insurance and risk management, you must be confident. Confident in your approach. Confident in your communication skills. Confident in your team. Confident in your technical know-how. Confident in the manner in which you deliver your services. And, confident in the face of rejection.

Learning how to be confident is the single most important life skill you will ever acquire. It impacts your happiness, success and well-being. All other desirable qualities use confidence as the foundation.

No one is born with confidence. People begin to develop confidence during the growing-up process.

The role of parents is essential. Parents who are critical of their children without acknowledging their strengths unknowingly damage the development of self-confidence. On the other hand, parents who give support and encourage children to move forward will likely rear self-confident children.

Why is self-esteem important?
Every individual needs to have self-esteem, quite simply because it affects every aspect of one’s life. Having a good self-esteem is essential, because:

    It helps you feel good about yourself and everything you do.
    It translates into belief in yourself, giving you the courage to try new things.
    It allows you to respect and honor yourself, even when you make mistakes. And when you respect yourself, others will respect you too.
    When you have a good self-esteem, you will know that you’re smart enough to make your own decisions.
    When you honor yourself, you will make choices that nourish your mind and body.
    You will value your safety, your feelings and health. Therefore, you will choose to make healthier eating choices, exercising, or taking time off to do something you like (without feeling guilty about not doing something for somebody else).

All this does not mean that a person with good self-esteem discounts others, but that -- a person with a good self-esteem values oneself and ensures that his/her feelings or needs are not discounted.

It is essential that you understand that confidence is under your control. It is not controlled by someone else.

 Self-confidence is about balance. At one end of the spectrum are people with low self-confidence. At the other extreme, there are people who are over-confident and who often take too much risk, stretch themselves beyond their capabilities and eventually run into road blocks.

Over-confidence is having unmerited confidence—believing that something or someone is capable when they are not. On the other end of the spectrum, “choking” refers to losing confidence, especially self-confidence, just at the moment when it is needed most and doing poorly as a result.

Confident people risk security and comfort to achieve higher levels of growth and independence. They have the ability to see obstacles as opportunities. Each day begins and ends with a sense of clarity, simplicity and a purpose. Let’s study the actions of individuals with both high and low self-confidence.
Unfortunately, people with low self-confidence get caught in a vicious cycle. Their lack of confidence makes it difficult to be successful. And, their inability to experience success brings on negativity. People with low self-confidence live their days with anxiety, confusion and fatigue. Their self-image is impaired by their inability to live with a sense of purpose and passion.

Highly self-confident people feel in control. They have the ability to shut out distractions, establish priorities, make sound judgments, create strategies and carry them out effectively. They make good use of their strengths and resources. Most important, self-confident individuals possess an ability to create value for themselves and those around them.

In the complex and turbulent world of insurance and risk management, it is easy to lose confidence in one’s ability to control the outcome of his or her actions. This lack of perceived control leads to indecision and/or impulsive actions. As a result, necessary actions are avoided, delayed or, when acted upon, are often poorly carried out.
Your self-confidence is at its highest peak when you have:

1. Unique Process. A differentiated strategy in the marketplace. A “competitive” advantage.

2. Balance. The ability to observe situations clearly so not to be over- or under-confident.

3. The ability to see Obstacles as Opportunities.

4. Accomplishments. The recognition and celebration of your successes.

5. Strengths. Focus on what you do best. Consider your unique attributes and abilities.

6. Relationships. Positive relationships with others foster a sense of self-worth that contributes to your self-image.

7. Set Goals. A confident person creates visions and sets goals. Visions will allow you to see yourself at some point in the future, while goals offer a road map to reach these visions. Goals enhance your confidence because you can measure yourself against benchmarks.

Knowing how to be confident is a matter of strategy. Start by acknowledging your abilities and talents, avoid situations that discourage you from gaining confidence and seek opportunities to enhance your self-esteem. Success breeds confidence. Confidence breeds success.

Confidence…your most important life skill

Funny SMS in Hindi

""दिल्ली में इतना कोहरा है कि एक चोर ने महिला समझ के कुत्ते की चेन खींच ली ! 
कुत्ता स्वस्थ हैं 
चोर अस्पताल में भर्ती हैं !

 मछली जल कि रानी है -:-
इसका नया वर्जन ..
पत्नी घर की रानी है ,
करती अपनी मनमानी है ,
काम बताओ तो चिढ़ जाएगी ,
शौपिंग कराओ तो खिल जाती 
 
 
चूहा पार्टी में 4 पैग लगाकर मस्त था।
बिल्ली बोली: आज पार्टी ना होती तो मैं तुझे खा जाती।
चूहा: चली जा साली, वर्ना लोग कहेंगे नशे में औरत पे हाथ उठा दिया। 

मोहब्बत हो जाये या मच्छर काटे अंजाम एक ही होता है; 
क्या? 
रात को नींद नहीं आती। 

 बूढ़ी महिला: यमराज जी, मुझे वक़्त से पहले क्यों उठा लिया?
यमराज: बुढ़िया दिमाग मत चाट, मार्च में क्लोजिंग (closing) थी, टारगेट पूरा करना था।

 हरयाणवी जाट का बच्चा साइकिल चलाते-चलाते एक लड़की से टकरा गया।
लड़की बोली: घंटी नहीं मार सकता क्या?
जाट: री छोरी, बावली है के? पूरी साइकिल मार दी इब घंटी के अलग ते मारुं के? 
 
पुलिस (चोर से): वादा करो आगे से जेब नहीं काटोगे।
चोर बोला,"मैं वादा करता हूँ, अब आगे से नहीं पीछे से जेब काटूंगा।" 
 
पठान ने मछली पकड़ी और घर आया तो देखा:
ना गैस, ना आटा, ना बिजली और ना तेल।
पठान वापस मछली को नदी में फेक आया।
मछली चिल्लाई,"कांग्रेस पार्टी जिंदाबाद, 

 
डॉक्टर: आपके लिए दो ख़बरें हैं एक अच्छी और एक बुरी।
मरीज: अच्छी वाली खबर क्या है?
डॉक्टर: आपके मरने में सिर्फ 24 घंटे बाकी हैं।
मरीज (आश्चर्य से) बोला: क्या! और बुरी खबर?
डॉक्टर: मैं आपको यह बात कल बताना भूल. Tha

बच्चा: दूध पीने से रंग गोरा होता है?
डॉक्टर: हां, होता है।
बच्चा: झूठ, फिर भैंस का बच्चा काला क्यों होता है? 

डॉक्टर: कैसे आना हुआ? 
मरीज: डॉक्टर साहब, तबीयत ठीक नहीं है, लीवर में दर्द हो रहा है।
डॉक्टर: दारु पीते हो? 
मरीज: हाँ, पर छोटा पैग ही बनाना।  


डॉक्टर: आपके तीन दांत कैसे टूट गए?
मरीज: पत्नी ने कड़क रोटी बनाई थी।
डॉक्टर: तो खाने से मना कर देते।
मरीज: वही तो किया था। 


खुद को करो कंजूस इतना;
कि हर SMS भेजने से पहले;
सर्विस सेंटर वाले खुद कॉल करके पूछें;
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एक बच्चा पैदा होते ही नर्स से बोला: मोबाइल है क्या? 
नर्स: करेगा क्या? 
बच्चा: कुछ नहीं भगवान् को कॉल करनी है कि मैं पहुँच गया हूँ।  


डॉक्टर मरीज़ से बोला,"अगर तुम मेरी दवा से ठीक हो गए तो मुझे क्या इनाम दोगे?"
मरीज़: मैं कब्र खोदता हूँ, आपकी कब्र फ्री खोद दूंगा। 


महिला डॉक्टर: तुम रोज़ सुबह क्लीनिक के बाहर खड़े होकर औरतों को क्यों घूरते हो?
आदमी: जी आप ने ही लिखा है, "औरतों को देखने का समय सुबह 9 बजे से 11 बजे तक।" 

Saving Money Can be Fun !!

How to save money and still have fun!
We've got a money-saving expert to share her tips on how you can save money with the new budget!

Lots of simple ways that you can save money and get through the tough times without compromising on fun!

'A bottle of wine on a Friday night, meals out, a monthly shopping spree, manicures, waxes and a regular cut and color can all add up. But savvy girls who are in-the-know can still look gorgeous, go out and enjoy a good meal and still have money left at the end of the month. Here are some great money saving tips to get you started!'

- Swishing - If you fancy a new look but can't afford to splash out on this season's new collections, get your friends round and organised a clothes swapping party; you can have a whole new wardrobe with no price tag attached and enjoy a good gossip, a glass of wine and some nibbles at the same time

- A new look - save on haircuts and beauty treatments by going to trainees or beauty colleges - although it may take longer you can often save over 50% on the cost. You can also sign up to be a guinea pig for trainees who need models to help them out with salon treatments, make-up and hair dressing. Volunteers can then benefit from free or discounted treatments.  
- Waste not, want not - never waste anything! If you don't finish that bottle of wine you shared with the girls last week, use it to fill up the ice cube tray. Then you can use the frozen ‘wine cubes' in cooking which saves you having to buy a bottle every time a recipe calls for it

- Eating out - if you look around there are lots of great two-for-one deals with high street restaurant chains, so you can still have a meal out with the girls or enjoy a dinner with your man. 

- Get Fit - So many of us have such good intentions when it comes to staying in shape, but the reality is lots of us prefer a night on the dance floor to an evening on the treadmill. Monthly gym membership, at upwards of £50, is a real expense. Over the course of the year that adds up to the cost of that Mulberry bag you've had your eye on. Instead, stay in shape for free; walk to work, take the stairs instead of the lift or get your friends together for a weekly running club - a good old chinwag makes exercise all the more enjoyable!


- Lunches - If you hate the thought of making sandwiches every morning because you need the time to do your hair and make-up, it's good practice to simply cook more than you need the evening before, then you can take the leftovers for your lunch. Tupperware is much more fashionable than it used to be!

Discipline goes in hand with successin every sphere of life.

One of the most important keys to Success is having the discipline to do what you know you should do, even when you don't feel like doing it.

One-half of life is luck; the other half is discipline - and that’s the important half, for without discipline you wouldn’t know what to do with luck.

Success requires hard work and self-discipline. With self-discipline, anyone gain self-confidence and achieve success
If you were to ask the most successful people their secret of success, they will tell you that success requires one thing and that is- self discipline.

Discipline is your ultimate tool for personal empowerment.  It means taking control and getting your life in order. You need to commit to doing this, now, and honor that commitment to yourself. Life is too short to put it off any longer.

Discipline goes in hand with success in every sphere of life. Throughout history, we find that self-discipline has been the common denominator for all those who achieved anything worthwhile and meaningful in life.

The reason why so many people fail to achieve their goals and end up living mediocre lives is their lack of self-discipline. No matter how gifted or talented you may be, to experience the sweet taste of success you need to master the art of self-discipline. Discipline is what Roy Smith called “the defining fire” by which talent becomes ability.

People who have achieved stupendous levels of success started at the bottom and worked their way up by disciplining themselves for success.

The journey of success is not easy. There will always be challenges to face, difficulties to tackle and obstacles to overcome. It takes mental strength and consistency to attain what you desire and self-discipline helps you to master just that. Self-discipline is, as popularly called, ‘the bridge’ between goals and accomplishments.

Contrary to what most people think, self-discipline is not about denying yourself or punishing yourself. It is about training your mind to go through with what you start doing. As Elbert Hubbard has expressed- it is the ability to ‘make yourself do’ what you should do, when you should do it, whether you feel like it or not.

All great achievements require a good amount of hard work and discipline. And it’s not the work that is hard, it is the discipline. Self-discipline is a valuable attribute to have, yet difficult to obtain. Jim Rohn once said, and very rightly, “We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret.”

Self-discipline, however, is not a spectator sport. You need to actively develop it by dismissing negative thoughts. Free yourself of self-limiting beliefs and focus on your goals. This requires constant efforts and regular practice but once developed surely pays rich dividends.

The age old saying of “discipline is the key to success” holds true even today. Self- discipline is the backbone of a successful and productive life- without discipline life is like ‘a ship without a rudder.’

With the practice of self-discipline, you can create breakthrough results in your life and achieve great success. Master self-discipline if you want to reach your full potential and design the life you really desire.
No stream or gas drives anything until it is confined. 
No life ever grows great until it is focused, dedicated, disciplined.

Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed.

The truth is you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed.
“"Sometimes you just gotta let shit go and say to "hell with it" and move on"” – now this is not quite an academic speech you would expect a famous person to have, but he never wanted to be a role model by the way he acted, spoke or sang. He became a role model by mistake as his life was known by more and more people and soon teens and adults started to see in him an example of life, of someone that has seen it all and did it all and now he is what he wants to be. When you see one of the Eminem quotes you can easily recognize the man behind the words. Sometimes is harder just because he evolved, he aged in terms of life experience and so did his songs. “Don't do drugs, don't have unprotected sex, don't be violent... leave that to me” –this is just one example of his wisdom even if many cannot agree that Eminem ever had wise advice.


He wanted to take on his shoulders the hardness of a ruined life style because this is what he learned to do. He well knew the risks; he knew the bad and the good like few of his fans did and knew this life is not worth it for others to lose this much just to know what he had been through. The Eminem quotes are not different from a parent’s advice to the younger. It could have been his father side that put these words in his mouth or it could have been his tormented life that made him realize he has the power to change lives with good advice. You can call it altruism because he did what he could do not to leave others make the same mistakes. His music is not revealing all the traumas just to be sold better, but for showing to the audience what a wrecked life can take. Eminem quotes are everywhere and about anything, life, women, family, music, friends, enemies, death, drugs, violence, race and miscellaneous words once said by him in official situations or in private. The Slim Shady as he called himself is for some the dark side we always run away but that never dies Free Articles, and stays there near us.

Take Responsibility For Your Life !

 Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens.
Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody expects of you. Never excuse yourself.

Taking responsibility for your life is great. But that is also all that you have control over. You can’t control the results of your actions. You can’t control how someone reacts to what you say or what you do.
It’s important to know where your limits are. Otherwise you’ll create a lot unnecessary suffering for yourself and waste energy and focus by taking responsibility for what you can’t and never really could control.

You are totally responsible for your life. This is the foundation principle you must embrace if you plan for happiness and success in life and work. I coach a young woman currently, a manager in a small company.

I am struck, every time we meet, by her failure to take responsibility for what is happening in her work and life. Everything is someone else’s fault. Every problem is explained away with reasons about why she can’t affect the situation or the outcome.

People who take complete responsibility for their lives experience joy and control of circumstances. They are able to make choices because they understand that they are responsible for their choices.

Indeed, even when events that are not under your control, go awry, you can, at least, determine how you will react to the event. You can make an event a disaster or you can use it as an opportunity to learn, to grow, to cherish your faith, to hold loved ones close.

So how do you take responsibility?
Well, it’s simply choice that you have to make.

A powerful way to keep myself in line. Though it doesn’t always work. Doing the right thing in every situation is hard to do and also hard to always keep in mind. So don’t aim for perfection. Just try to be as good a person as you can be right now.

When you know those very important reasons above it becomes a lot easier to stick with taking responsibility. And to not rationalize to yourself that you didn’t really have to take responsibility in various situations. That doesn’t mean that I beat myself up endlessly about it. I just observe that I have hurt myself and my life. And that doesn’t feel good. And so I become less prone to repeat the same mistake.

Also, two habits that I think are essential to be able to do the right and often hard thing and take personal responsibility are the ones I wrote about a few weeks ago: increasing your energy levels and learning to be present.

Without the extra energy and the presence it becomes more difficult to take action and to not create extra resistance and negativity within yourself.